Sunday, March 14, 2010

Marriage-To Infinity and Beyond!

I recently tied the knot in October of last year. A lot was said about it, in terms of us being too young, and to unprepared for what life was to throw at us. Well, since we strapped on the ol' ball and chain i've never been more convinced that what people are saying is a load of crap. If you have found the one, that special, go to the ends of the earth to be with, one then there should be no problem. Now we have only been married for a little over four months so of course people are going to say, "Just wait, you'll see" but i think that what they are saying is we're not happy with our own lives, so we'd like to live through your single one and feel like we are not tied down. Now im not saying marriage is for everyone, kids seem to think that hey, lets just try this out and see if it works, like its a t-shirt you can try on and if it dosent fit, you can return. Losers. Anyways, what i am trying to say is marriage is underrated if you have the right person. Stephanie aka Mrs. Sharp is definitely the right person. Amazing, beautiful, and sexy in every way but with an attiude that will make you think twice about crossing her =] Side note:A lot of people have told me im better looking but its debateable HA. ( For you). Meanwhile as far as being prepared , i've never felt more so in my life. As a young adult you go through stages in your life where you feel lost, or unsure about what to do next. Most of the time years are wasted on partying, drugs, bad relationships, and procrastination. While i was not subject to the first three, i could see myself falling into the 4th one w/o proper avoidance. I mean who dosent just waste time, chillin, doing nothing. Point is, i see a lot of my friends falling into this trap. But i feel like me and Steph have found a path around that, not really though marriage, but more through challenaging each other, and pushing each other to new levels. She works at a bank and i work at Fedex. So we do pretty well. But we are never satisfied, never content. We dont want to stay where we are at, in a crappy town, surrounded by other crappy towns. We want more. So just some advice. If you find the right one, dont hesitate, dont waste time. Get to building, because time flies. Do something great in your life. Make something last. I know I will.

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